As we near the end of this decade, the idea of the 10 year challenge has been popping up online. Folks are posting a photo of themselves in 2009 and then one in 2019 with a reflection on how things have changed and maybe how they have stayed the same. Because my husband and I celebrated 10 years together earlier this year, it’s been on my mind to share about us versus just me. Ten years is a solid amount of time to spend with someone. I’m grateful for our partnership and look forward to the next 10+. I love that he recently commented that we haven’t aged that much. It’s a sweet thought but when I look back on who we were 10 years ago, the fact that we have aged is a blessing to me.

I certainly didn’t see myself allowing this type of love. I was weary of love and marriage but it’s been the best thing ever and has enhanced my life immensely. It’s not been without it’s challenges though. Some of which have been welcome challenges and a large part of much needed growth. Some, on the other hand I wish we could have avoided altogether. Life often throws as many curveballs as it does blessings.

When I met my husband I was 26 and told him that I had pictured myself being married and pregnant by the time I was 27. By the way, mentioning that to him on our third date went over like a lead balloon. But if you know me at all, you know I am not known for my tact or ability to filter myself. The universe certainly had other things in mind and nothing went to any sort of plan I had laid out. But, it’s all been perfect and just the way it was meant to unfold.

I’m glad we have grown together, explored together and given each other the freedom to evolve separately. We have experienced triumph and tribulation, joy and sadness, silliness and strife and I still choose you every day. This life is a trip so it’s best if you find someone who you can travel well with. To the next 10 years!